About Nicole Sodoma

Nicole Sodoma is the Founder and Managing Principal of Sodoma Law. For the past 25 years, Nicole has pioneered a way through the often-dreaded field of family law with integrity, compassion, and tenacity. Nicole’s deep commitment to her clients and community has resulted in tremendous success in the courtroom and thousands of lives have been positively impacted by her work. Over the years, Nicole has risen to prominence as a national authority on divorce, custody, and co-parenting, and her insights have been featured in TODAY, The Wall Street Journal, Business Insider, and The Washington Post, among others. She has been recognized as a top attorney and entrepreneur by several regional publications.

As a marriage-loving divorce attorney, Nicole Sodoma never expected to go through a divorce herself. So, what happens when you wake up one day and realize that while it may take two to say “I Do” it only takes one to say “I Don’t”? PLEASE DON’T SAY YOU’RE SORRY (releasing May 24, 2022) is a witty, honest, and wildly relatable account of the stripped-down realities of marriage, separation, and divorce. Using her personal stories and (sometimes unbelievable) experiences as a family law attorney of 25 years, Nicole layers in laughter, compassion, and legal savvy to deliver empowering principles that will help guide readers through both the humorous and not-so-humorous realities of divorce. While there’s no denying that divorce sucks, PLEASE DON’T SAY YOUR SORRY serves as a reminder that although the journey can be wholly overwhelming and emotionally exhausting - it also doesn’t have to be the worst thing that’s ever happened to you.